Category Archives: Discipline, Morals, and Ethics

Cookie Monster and the Economics Lesson

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The 1977 Little Golden Book “Cookie Monster and the Cookie Tree” (which I think was also a segment in a Sesame Street episode) is ostensibly a fable about sharing, but I have a different perspective. Yeah, I know it’s pretty dorky to write a serious critique of a children’s book. Humor me, though.

There’s a reason we read fables and other morality tales to our children. In addition to teaching them to read and entertaining them, we’re hoping they assimilate some of the lessons. Other times, we keep some stories away from our children, because we don’t want them to assimilate those lessons. That’s why we care so much what they watch on TV, and how much, right? So, it is in the spirit of preferring some lessons over others that I bother to present my perspective on this silly book. (Besides, it’s a fun way to talk about economics, the dismal science.)

For those who haven’t read it in a long time (or ever), here’s a synopsis. A witch has a magic talking cookie tree, whose cookies she doesn’t want to share with anyone, especially the voracious and insatiable Cookie Monster. To keep all the cookies to herself, she casts a spell on the tree to prevent it from giving cookies to anyone who doesn’t share. Desperate for cookies, Cookie Monster tries to find a friend on Sesame Street who”ll share cookies with him. Unfortunately, nobody believes he’ll really share. Going back to the cookie tree, he meets the witch, who can’t get any cookie, either. They realize that if they share, they can both get cookies. At first, it works to mutual benefit, but it doesn’t take long for Cookie Monster to devour all the cookies, leaving none for the witch.

Since not sharing is presented as the cause for the dilemma, and sharing seemingly resolved it, it’s understandable if this book is used to teach children to share. I don’t think it’s particularly appropriate as a sharing lesson, though. Rather, I believe it’s a cautionary tale about the need for proper respect for, and effective enforcement of, property rights.

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A No-Show

I was psyched. I was prepared.

  • Camcorder with charged battery? Check.
  • Camera with charged battery? Check.
  • Flexible mini tripod? Check.
  • LED spotlight? Check.

We got there on time. I got a seat up front without any hassle. I setup the camcorder and spotlight on the tripod, which I wrapped around my left knee so I could operate the camcorder with my left hand. I had the camera ready to be operated by my right hand.

I was ready to watch my first child’s first preschool performance and record it for posterity.

But it didn’t happen as I imagined.

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Bitterness, Anger, Shouting, and Reviling

Ever have an experience at religious service when it really seems like the readings are meant specifically for you? That happened to me this morning at mass. Here’s the second reading for today:

“Brothers and sisters: Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with which you were sealed for the day of redemption. All bitterness, fury, anger, shouting, and reviling must be removed from you, along with all malice. And be kind to one another, compassionate, forgiving one another as God has forgiven you in Christ. So be imitators of God, as beloved children, and live in love, as Christ loved us and handed himself over for us as a sacrificial offering to God for a fragrant aroma.” – Ephesians 4:30 – 5:2

Um…yeah. Guilty as charged. There’s a lot more bitterness, fury, anger, shouting, and reviling in my house than I’d like, and not nearly enough kindness, compassion, and forgiveness. Aside from that, though, the reading was very timely because of my verbal altercation with a stranger yesterday in front of Alex.

*Sigh* I am a very long way from being a saint. May God grant me a long life. Otherwise, I’m screwed. ;)

Crosswalks and Curse Words

So much for my good record of not using bad language around my kids. The example I set today was pretty poor all around, in fact.

It happened near the end of a long run through Schenley Park, for which I had taken Alex in a jogging stroller. I’ve been running between Schenley Park and my home in Greenfield for seven years. I’d like to think I know how to do so safely. Apparently someone disagrees.

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Rules to Live By

A couple days ago I was attempting to discipline my almost 4yo son about something when he interjected with what he thought I was going to say. He then recited a couple rules from his preschool classroom. This was the first time I’d heard of these rules (which is not surprising because Alex speaks as little about school as a typically reticent teenager), so I asked him to recite the rest. I thought they were so good that I decided to modify them slightly and print them out to be displayed in our living room. Here are both sets.

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